Christmas is often painted as a season of joy, togetherness, and celebration. But for many, it’s also a time of quiet ache—a season marked not just by lights and laughter, but by the sharp absence of someone deeply missed.

Whether it’s the first Christmas without them or one of many, missing a loved one at Christmas can bring a unique kind of grief. The traditions, the music, the smells—they can all serve as poignant reminders of moments shared and memories cherished.

At Today Tomorrow & Always (TTA), we understand how important it is to feel connected to those we carry in our hearts. Our mission is to create meaningful memory pieces that offer comfort, healing, and something tangible to hold onto.

 

You’re Not Alone in Missing Someone at Christmas

The holidays can feel incredibly isolating when you’re grieving. But you’re not alone. So many people experience a quiet sadness during the Christmas season, whether from the recent loss of a parent, grandparent, child, partner, or beloved pet. And it’s okay to feel a mix of emotions—grief and gratitude, sorrow and sweetness, longing and love.

 

Gentle Ways to Honour Their Memory This Christmas

If you’re looking for ways to keep their presence close, here are a few gentle rituals and keepsake ideas that may bring comfort:

1. Create a Memory Ornament

Add a personalised ornament to your tree that includes their name, handwriting, ashes, or even a snippet of their clothing or a favourite photo. Each year, hanging it can become a moment of connection.

2. Light a Candle in Their Honour

A simple act of lighting a candle on Christmas Eve or Christmas Day can be a quiet yet powerful tribute. You might even speak their name or share a favourite memory aloud.

3. Wear a Keepsake Piece

TTA offers handcrafted DNA and memorial jewellery made from ashes, hair, fabric, breastmilk, preserved flowers, and more. Whether it’s a bead, pendant, or keyring, wearing something that holds part of their story can help you feel closer.

4. Set a Place at the Table

Some families choose to set an empty place at the Christmas table as a way to acknowledge and include the person they miss.

5. Write Them a Letter

Writing a letter to your loved one, updating them on your life or sharing your Christmas wishes, can be a healing way to express your grief and love.

 

Keepsakes That Bring Comfort Through the Holidays

One of the most meaningful ways to carry someone with you through the holiday season is through a custom memory piece. Our clients often say their keepsakes brought joy in a dark time or became their most treasured Christmas gift.

From our best-selling keepsake beads to wearable mementos like pendants and rings, every piece is handcrafted with compassion, care, and the unique story of your loved one in mind. Turnaround is typically 4–6 weeks from when we receive your inclusions, and every item is posted via express with signature on delivery—because your memories deserve the utmost respect.

 

A Gentle Reminder

Grief doesn’t follow a calendar, and it’s okay if your Christmas doesn’t look or feel the same. Be kind to yourself. Let go of the pressure to “move on,” and instead, allow yourself to remember, honour, and feel.

If you’re ready to create a piece that holds your memories close this season, or simply want to talk about options, we’re here for you.

Today Tomorrow & Always – Making memories you can hold.

Browse our collections to begin creating your own memory piece for Christmas. You’re not alone in your grief—and your memories deserve to be held close.